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Name: Nate
Country: United States
State: California
Metro: San Jose
Birthday: 12/25/1970
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Interests: Things that bring me joy: My wife and kids. Worship. Cooking, taking pictures of, and then eating food. REAL barbecue. California native plants. Composting. Gardening.


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Friday, August 21, 2009

We're going to Kuching in a few days

We’ve been in Malaysia almost 10 days now.  I think we’re finally getting over the jet lag and getting a “normal” sleep pattern.  We don’t have the eating pattern down quite yet. That is mostly because Malaysians eat at almost any hour of the day or night!

Besides breakfast

Him Heang Tau Sar Pneah

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there’s morning tea.

3 layer tea

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Then lunch.

claypot loh shih fun

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Then afternoon tea.

Ipoh white coffee

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Then dinner.

Thai-style fried stuffed chicken wings

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After that, people still go out for late supper.

KL-style bak kut teh

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They can even go out past midnight for mamak

Thosai

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There is no end to the amount of eating choices you have here in Malaysia. So different from the US.

Annie’s brother and cousins all have work that ends even later than normal. So we often find ourselves going out really late at night to eat.  That’s why it’s been hard to get into a regular sleeping schedule. But I think I’m getting into the correct time zone now.  Just in time to go to Kuching and start work!

Working on getting to work

As I said in my post “Why Nate and Annie are moving to Kuching”, I have a job in Kuching but I still need an employment pass from the Malaysian government to come in and work for my company there.  I was originally told that the process would take a month to a month and a half. But now they’re telling me it normally takes 90 days.  *sigh* The wheels of government turn slowly.

However my company wants me to start working as soon  as possible.  So they’ve come up with a way for me to go in as a consultant, invited by my company to work there. Annie, myself, and the two kids will be flying over on Monday the 24th.  The problem is, the state of Sarawak (where Kuching is) will only allow me in for 30 days. After that, I have to leave Malaysia.

(I know, it’s mind-boggling. But that’s one of the quirks of living and working in Sarawak.  Apparently it’s very hard for a non-Sarawakian to get a pass to stay there.)

So there’s a quandary.  If I go in to work, and the employment pass isn’t approved by the time my 30 days are up, I will have to leave Malaysia (probably for Singapore).  And there’s a chance that Sarawak might not let me back in.  Or if it does, then my employment pass could be put in jeopardy.  That would not be good at all, since we are very much planning to shift all our stuff over to Kuching – a VERY expensive process.

I need your help

There are a lot of people who are working to help get us situated into Kuching.  But the one thing that you, dear reader, can do is pray.  Pray that God would grant us immense favor with the officials. Pray that the employment pass will be approved by the Malaysian government before my 30 days are up.  That is the largest hurdle that must be cleared for us.

I know that God has worked miracles and wonders to get us this far. We want to see His plan carried forward, in His timing and in His strength. All praise and glory to God, whose love endures forever!

Aloha,  Nate

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Sunday, August 16, 2009

Annie and Nate 2nd Update from KL

After a breakfast of wan tan mee, Annie and I followed Annie's brother Lawrence and his wife Num to their pet store in Kota Damansara. They don't have Internet access at home, but do all their 'Net work at work.  I was able to log on to email from their work computer, but I needed to use my own laptop to send something off.  Fortunately, their neighbors have an open wifi connection.  I was able to avert Internet withdrawal symptoms in the nick of time

I went out to a nearby coffeehouse to get a drink.  Annie's cousin recommended this tri-color tea

 

tri color tea

the top layer is Malaysian tea.  The middle layer is condensed milk. I originally thought that the black layer on the bottom was dark coffee or something.  But as I sucked the bottom layer up with the straw, it was extremely thick and sweet.  This was gula melaka (palm sugar) syrup!  Turns out, you're supposed to mix all three layers before drinking.

Annie's friend Carmen came to take us to lunch at Restoran Paramount Sengfatt in the Paramount section of town.  Their specialty is this claypot steamed fish

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It was very nice, especially with the ginger and green onion sauce.

After lunch, Carmen took us to a nearby digimall (digital mall). It's a four story building packed with electronics stores for every need.  I needed to get a power cable so that I could recharge my laptop from the Malaysian-style 240V outlets.  I also needed to get a handphone so people can start calling us.  I also wanted to check out prices on a Canon 50mm lens. Finally, I wanted to get our GPS loaded with Malaysia maps.

The power cable was easily obtained.  Carmen got us added to her Maxis family share plan, so Annie and I both have cell phone numbers now.  We got quotes from different shops on the lens; basically the only difference was how much they wanted to charge for the added UV filter.

As for the GPS, there just happened to be a Garmin store on the ground floor of the digimall. The service fee to add the Malaysia maps was only 30 ringgit, as long as I had an SD card.  I purchased a micro-SD card for 22 ringgit and left the card with the Garmin folks while I cooled off at the nearby coffee shop with Michael Jackson

 

Michael Jackson

A "Michael Jackson" is actually soy bean milk with grass jelly strips - black and white, get it? :D

After the mall, Carmen dropped us back at Mum's place where I found out that the micro-SD card that I purchased would not fit into the SD slot in the Garmin GPS. And the micro-SD didn't come with an adapter! d'oh!  At least Mum had an old Nokia phone that accepted Annie's SIM card.  I will have to get my own phone...

Aloha, Nate

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Annie and Nate First Update from KL

Hi friends. Just wanted to update you all on the latest developments on our 2-year adventure in Malaysia, which started a few days ago. 

We were seen off at SFO by Dan, Douglas and Cheryl, Mason and Penny, and Phong.  They were so helpful and efficient in getting our stuff from the cars to the counter. Our first praise is that we didn't have any problems with overweight checked baggage.  In addition, the flight wasn't full so we were able to secure two rows with a seat in between us so that Daniel and Esther could stretch out and sleep.  We made it through the security line without a hiccup, even though we had so many bags to carry with us. 

The wait to board didn't seem that long, and soon we were on the plane and then in the air.  What was really cool was, since Annie and I had ordered "special" meals, we were served before everyone else. Annie got the halal meal while I got the kosher one.  My kosher dinner was steak and potatoes, and included a plate of smoked fish.  Truly a first class meal!

The flight was uneventful.  The kids slept halfway through and watched tv the other half.  Before landing, our breakfasts arrived. I preferred Annie's savory halal meal with shrimp and eggs to my sweet kosher meal of pancakes and pastries. We landed in Taipei and hung out there for a few hours, enjoying the free wifi and a lunch repast of ramen and hand-made-to-order dumplings.

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After we boarded our flight to Kuala Lumpur, the flight attendant brought out my kosher meal in a box.  Apparently, the box is to remain sealed until the passenger unseals it so that the stewards can heat it up.  Moreover, the attendant asked me to not just inspect the package but to pray over it before unsealing.  Feeling quite sheepish, I gave thanks for the food and broke the seal.  Later on, my salmon fillet lunch was served.  It was ok, but lacked salt.  Fortunately, Annie had a small bottle of white truffle salt that Tammy the Spice Hound had given to us the night before.  Much better!

We landed in KL and made our way past the health screening section to the Immigration lines. Even though most of the counters for foreign passport holders were staffed, there were hundreds of people standing in what looked like hour-long lines!  Annie being a Malaysian passport holder, though, meant she went to a different counter and a much shorter line.  Fortunately, we got to follow her to that counter!  Am I ever glad to be married to a Malaysian!  We made it through Immigration without a hitch and got to the baggage claim.

Somehow, we managed to get all our bags and boxes onto two carts and wheeled them out to the Customs checker.  When he saw all our baggage, he asked what we were bringing in. Annie explained that we were moving back to Malaysia after living in the States for 13 years.  With a knowing smile, he instructed us to place just one box on the scanner. We were through!

Annie's brother and friend were there to pick us up. After a bit of shifting bags and boxes around, we managed to fit all our stuff into two cars and then were off to Annie's mum's house.  Here's the door-to-door travel time:

1 hr driving from San Jose to SFO
3 hrs waiting to board
13 hr flight to Taiwan
4 hr layover
4 hr flight to KL International Airport
3 hrs through Immigration, Customs, and driving time to Annie's mum
28 hrs total travel time

By the time we arrived, we were exhausted.   Daniel went straight to bed. I had a couple of glasses of barley tea and soon after went to bed myself.

We went to sleep around 6 pm Malaysia time (2 am in San Jose).  I think the kids woke up around 3 am, bothering Grandma with questions of "why is the morning taking so long to get light?"  Finally at 6 am I couldn't sleep any more so I got up to do TWA.  It was going to be a busy day and there were lots of things to do.

Aloha,

Nate
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Tuesday, August 11, 2009

Aloha and A Hui Hou

(This post was written in the SFO terminal as we waited to embark.)

We have been so blessed these past few weeks as we prepared to move to Malaysia.  Ever since we started getting ready for our garage sales, our friends have really come through for us to help us clear out our house. Then when we were finally out of our house, more friends have showed their generosity in giving us housing, providing us meals, and generally caring for us in every way imaginable.

I wanted to recognize and give thanks to some of these people who have become heroes to us.

Thanks to all the people who helped Annie prepare for and run the garage sales, like Lian, Pooi Yin, Wayland and Winnie, Mark and Maria. Thanks to all those friends who bought our stuff, took our stuff, or accepted the stuff we threw on them  (you know who you are )  I especially want to recognize Danny Chow from the Cantonese Congregation. When he heard we would be moving, he came over to survey the stuff we were getting rid of.  I think he single handedly was responsible for taking most of our furniture, plus the fridge, freezers, washing machine, and garden beds.  He even helped clean out our backyard and prepped the junk for removal.  He is a humble guy, but his service to us was stellar.

Thank you to Chantu, Jeremy and Elizabeth who watched our kids all day the last week of our moving out so we had time to clean up the house.  Thanks again to Wes and Chantu for buying our minivan off of us!

Big thanks to Pastor Ted and Sandy, and Pastor Dan and Linda for letting us crash at your pads.  Moving out of our own home was hard but being able to stay in another home environment instead of a hotel was very comforting.

Thanks to Winnie, Maria, and family for organizing our farewell party. Thank you x2 to all the folks who came to bless us and pray for us.

Thank you to Mark and Audrey who let us borrow their minivan for the week.

Thanks to all our friends who invited us out for meals or invited us into their homes for meals.  We never felt alone.  We also never felt hungry!

Thank you to our friends who came to see us off one last time from Cupertino: The Shihs, Chows, Yungs, and Kwongs. And one Lodenquai

Extra special thanks to Mason and Penny, Douglas and Cheryl, PBQ and PDY for coming along to see us off at the airport.  You guys are so awesome!  I wish I could take you to Malaysia to help us get out of the airport!

All of you have made us feel so loved and so blessed.  We are very very grateful for your love, friendship and care.  You all collectively are what we will miss the most while we are in Malaysia, and what will draw us back home to San Jose one day.

While we're gone...

Just keep showing other people the same kind of love and care you showed to us.  Welcome the strangers.  Feed the sheep.

"A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another: just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another.  By this all people will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another." -- John 13:34-35

Aloha and A Hui Hou - we'll see each other again.

Nate


Thursday, August 06, 2009

Why Nate and Annie are Moving to Kuching

"As the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways and my thoughts than your thoughts." - Isaiah 55:9

Dear friends,

For those of you who have been following us on Facebook, you know already that we are out of our house in San Jose and have less than a week left before we depart for our two-year adventure in Malaysia.  For those of you who are wondering, "why are Nate and Annie moving to Malaysia?", go back and read my Xanga post about that.  But this post is titled "Why Nate and Annie are Moving to Kuching". Where is Kuching, and what's the story behind that?

Kuching is the 4th largest city in Malaysia, and is the main city of the Malaysian state of Sarawak on the island of Borneo.  That's right.  Borneo.  This Hawai'i boy is going to be living on a tropical island again!


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But isn't Annie's mum living in Kuala Lumpur on Peninsular Malaysia?  What caused the shift to Kuching?

Backing Up

Back when Annie and I were seriously considering getting married, I knew that she had this two-year homestay requirement on her visa.  I knew we'd eventually have to go back there. And I knew that I'd have to get a job there.  My thinking was, I could get a job in IT with a multi-national company and then transfer over once we were ready to return home.

I got a job in San Jose with IBM doing Deskside Support in 2000.  About a year after that, I transferred to another IBM site in San Jose, Almaden Research Center, to do Executive Support for the lab director and some VIPs there.  I stayed there for 5 years until I heard about an opportunity to do Executive Support at the Hitachi Global Storage Technologies account.  I was excited to jump over because it meant a shorter bus commute for me since their headquarters was right in our neighborhood.

I got to meet with and help out all the top execs at Hitachi GST.  Things were going relatively smoothly work-wise until we got word that our application for the waiver of Annie's homestay requirement was rejected.  We decided to move back to Malaysia this August, and stay with Annie's mum in KL (Kuala Lumpur) while I looked for a job.

No Dice

I started looking for a job within IBM there in Malaysia, but I was having no luck.  In the meantime, I heard that Hitachi had just purchased a factory in Kuching.   However, I didn't see any job postings within Hitachi about an IT opening there in Kuching. 

It was getting down to 6 weeks until our flight back, and I had no job prospects in sight.  Some people were counseling me to let Annie and the kids go back to Malaysia while I remained here in San Jose to work and send them money.  But I was resolved to keep our family together.  If it came down to a choice between job or family, I choose family.

I had informed my management that I was leaving to go back to Malaysia.  They all thought that, since I was moving to KL, I wouldn't be interested in working in Kuching. But once I expressed interest in going there (and working at local wages instead of an expat salary), suddenly things started happening.

The Ball Starts Rolling

Less than a month before my end date with IBM, one of the bosses at Hitachi asked for my resume.  The following week, they arranged a phone interview with another manager in Singapore.  We discussed my qualifications vis a vis the position that they had in mind for me there.  At the end of our interview, I asked him what he thought my chances were of getting the job.  "Honestly, 20%.  Because there's a larger labor pool in Malaysia so they don't need as many foreign workers."

When this job opportunity opened up for me, I had asked my close friends to begin praying for me, that God would grant me favor with the bosses.  When I heard that I had a "20 percent chance", I was initially dismayed. But then I asked my friends to pray even harder.

The following week, I began letting the admin assistants know that I'd be leaving soon.  As I was visiting with the admin for the head of IT, he happened to come out of his office.  "What's going on?"

ME: "I'm moving to Malaysia."

BIG BOSS "Malaysia!  We've got a plant in Malaysia."

ME: "I know.  I've been interviewing to get a job there.  If you could help me get that job, that would be so sweet." (I can't believe I talked like this to the big boss!)

BIG BOSS: "I think I can do that for you.  Let me talk to my people."

ME: (stunned silence)

The Offer

Can you imagine how I was feeling? Elated. Overjoyed. And humbled that the head of IT would go to bat for little ol' me.  Praise God, He DOES answer prayer!

The next week was my last full week of work.  I was busy preparing my able replacement to take over.  On the job front, I heard that there were concerns about hiring me as a foreign worker.  But I was hopeful that they could make it happen.  That Friday, I got a call telling me that they wanted me to bring in my passport and birth certificates.  A very good sign!

Late Monday, the day before my last day of work, they sent me the offer letter and arranged a conference call with some HR people in Malaysia.  At first, I was underwhelmed by the offer, because it was lower than I expected. But I think that perhaps my expectations were too high.  We had a very good discussion, and I told them I needed some time to go over the offer and to think.

People would think, "hey man, you got what you've been asking for, and in an incredibly short amount of time!  Hitachi is making a huge effort to bring you in as a foreign worker.  Why make them wait?"

Why Wait?

The situation is, even though I would be working for local wages, the truth is I am not a local.  I am moving there from the US.  I need to fly from KL to Kuching, set up housing, get a car, and most importantly, provide for my family - including schooling.  My US-born kids don't speak the language so they can't go to public school without difficulty. A local wouldn't have to worry about things like this, but I would. That's the reason for the hesitation.

I got on another conference call with HR and asked if they could provide any help for us to move from KL to Kuching. They said they don't normally do this kind of thing, and they didn't want to set a precedent. But they'd send my request up the chain and see what happens.  I said that's all I'm asking for, is their consideration.

And then of course, I asked my friends to pray some more.  I also asked the big boss very politely if he could help get the answer from HR sooner.  That Thursday, they sent the revised offer, this time including a signing bonus to help us with the move!  Again, God answered prayer!

This past Monday, I went in to sign the offer letter.  I'll be starting with Hitachi in Kuching around the first of September, depending on when they can get the employment pass granted.

Giving Thanks

I really want to thank God first of all for guiding me through this long journey.  I also want to thank my friends who prayerfully walked along with me on this journey.

Special thanks go to the bosses at Hitachi who had such faith in me and who went above and beyond their calling to help get us to Kuching.  I hope to confirm their faith.

What Now?

KEEP PRAYING.

The company still has to get my employment pass and the family's dependent pass granted by the government.  Otherwise I will not be able to work in Malaysia.  This could take up to a month, so we're now praying for favor with the government officials.

We will have to find housing in Kuching.  We'd of course love to have a place with space to plant a garden, but I don't know what the price to rent  a house with a yard is over there.  Pray that God would lead us to the place He wants us to be, with neighbors He wants us to meet.

Our main concern is now schooling for the kids.  Neither Daniel or Esther speak Chinese, so it would be difficult if not impossible to send them to a Chinese-speaking public school. We may have to send them to an International school which is taught in English. But that could be prohibitively expensive.  Pray that we have the wisdom to place them in the best school for their situation, and for the kids to be able to adapt quickly and fearlessly to the new school environment.

The Plan

We leave for Malaysia on August 11 and arrive in KL on the 12th. We'll be staying at Annie's mum's place for at least a week before flying to Kuching to secure a house and a car.  Hopefully we can have a Kuching address before our household shipment arrives in Malaysia.  That way we could direct the shipment directly to Kuching instead of to KL first.

Once we've settled in Kuching, we'll try to make the most of it.  I'm sure there will be speed bumps along the way.  Difficulties we'll encounter and curves and swerves along the path.  But we'll manage with God's help.

Our plan is to stay in Malaysia for two years.  That's how long Annie has to fulfill her homestay requirement.  Also, my work contract is two years long.  We keep telling people, two years is a short time.  We hope to be able to return to San Jose after that. But who knows?

God worked miracles to get us to Kuching for a reason.  We don't quite know what that reason is yet.  So we won't know whether He'll be done with us in two years' time.

I can only hope that we will be obedient to His voice and faithful to His calling.

Aloha, Nate

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